Bismillah
Ar Rahman Ar Raheem
Assalaamu
alaikum wa rahmathullah wa barakatuhu
It
seems strange that there should be so much heated discussion amongst
muntaqabāt as to whether it is fardh, mustahabb or totally
unnecessary to cover one's eyes and hands in public or in the
presence of na-mahram.
For me, this answer is simple; whenever
possible 'in public' I do cover my eyes and hands for two reasons:
Firstly,
I do this as I feel it pleases Allah (subhana wa ta’ala)
Secondly,
because I feel that leaving eyes and hands exposed is contrary to the
idea that all of a woman is awrah. This point is confirmed by
many daleels, the two most evident being:
Tirmidhi
with a Sahih chain reports... "Rasulullah (Sallallaahu “layhi
Wasallam) said “All of a woman is “awrah.”
(Shaikh
Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid quotes this hadith narrated by Tirmidhi
with a sahih isnaad and says this is a direct hadith from Rasulullah
(Sallallaahu “layhi Wasallam ) and has made it clear that a woman
must cover everything including the face and hands!)
and
Shaikh
Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid Quotes All of the woman is awrah based on
the hadith of "Rasulullah (Sallallaahu “layhi Wasallam) said
“All of a woman is “awrah.”
(Narrated
by Tirmidhi with a sahih isnaad). (This is the correct view
according to the madhhab of the Hanbalis, one of the two views of the
Maalikis and one of the two views of the Shaafa”is. )
But
even if I leave aside such daleels, as an ordinary muslimah I have to
ask myself if leaving exposed such potent parts of a woman’s body
as her eyes and hands can possibly be correct. If we feel we
must cover our faces, is it not strange that we should leave the most
attractive parts of our faces - our eyes -
exposed?
There
is an old proverb that says “The eyes are the windows to the soul”,
and a glance at them, especially when framed between niqaab and head
veil, can show the mood of the muslimah wearing niqaab. Eyes reveal
laughter or sorrow without showing the rest of the face, and sadly
they can and are used for seduction and causing fitnah. So it must
be simple logic that they should be concealed in front of na-mahram
if possible.
Also
are not the hands always being used to convey messages? Anyone who
lives in the Middle East will know that no conversation is carried on
without a lot of hand movements to reinforce the speakers points.
Watch an Indian dancer and you can see how hands can be used as tools
of seduction. In addition our hands say a lot about us and can
undermine our anonymity and even hint at our beauty - a young
woman’s hands are normally smooth while her mother’s will show
her age.
So
to me it seems logical that in front of na-mahram and in public
places I need to cover eyes and hands so as to ensure I do not cause
fitnah. Obviously there are times when I have to uncover my eyes to
a degree or totally, like when driving or reading something in small
print. But walking in the street or in rooms where there are
na-mahram, it is not any trouble or handicap to flip down an eye
veil. Yet we often see muntaqabāt
walking
in the souks, or on buses, or where they are many men, with the eye
veils attached to the niqaabs flipped back so as to expose their
often highly made-up eyes. I have to ask why these sisters bother
to wear niqaab at all when they are showing, even accentuating, the
most expressive parts of the face
My
own belief is that covering eyes and hands whenever possible is
mustahab. However I do sincerely think that it is up to every sister
to make up her own mind as to the answer to this question. The fact
that someone wears niqaab and covers her hands and eyes does not
necessarily means that she is good muslimah, but I do think we should all
individually look at this problem with open minds and come to our own
answers. Surely it is a small matter, specially when niqaab equipped
with eye veils are so easily made or bought with very little more
effort or expense than ones without them.
And
to those muntaqabāt who wear theirs
flipped back all the time, I would say that lowering your eye veils
does not make you freaks or half blind people who are liable to walk
into lampposts. What the simple act of pulling down a thin eye veil
does do is to help prevent fitnah. It is something done in a second or two that may well
have beneficial consequences out of all proportion to the VERY minor
inconvenience caused to the individual muntaqabāh.
If
you don't wear eyes veils of gloves, as I said earlier, it is your
choice. But I hope you at least consider the points I have put
forward in this short blog insha'Allah.
MashaALLAH sister, Shukran for ur clear explaination of ur point of view to whom I totally agree.
ReplyDeleteDaniela
Alhamdulillah, it is very pleasing to hear that we are in agreement on this topic. I know it is one that can cause problems for many muntaqabāt who feel that it's a step too far.
ReplyDeleteHaving said that, I admire greatly those sisters who wear niqaab in countries where such covering is frowned upon, even by fellow Muslims. May Allah (subhana wa ta'ala) grant them to courage and determination to continue to please Him in this manner. Ameen.
(If you ever wish to talk more generally, my e-mail address is............. Niqaabi12@yahoo.com )
Shukran for ur kind words. On one hand i feel anxious when covering fully one the other hand I know, that nobody can see this under the eyeveils. And i indeed feel more protected. So I try to adopt myself to the full face cover more and more and make dua that ALLAH (swt) will make it easy for me to keep it on at work, too.
ReplyDeleteSalaam
Daniela
Bismillah Ar Rahman Ar Raheem
DeleteAssalaamu alaikum wa rahmathullah wa barakatuhu
Dearest sister, you are in my duaa and my thoughts. I hope that Allah (subhana wa ta'ala) helps you towards you ambition.
Asalam waliykum sis,
ReplyDeleteI agree with what you said. I have respect for sister who choose to cover the face & hands as it is a trial to do so.
My one concern which i have come to know more of recently is that sisters who wear niqab and Burqa (some) have been judgmental of sisters like myself who wear jilbab showing face and hands. Judging me, for wearing this, that i will go to hell, that i am doing harram.
As you said covering face and hands is a liked act. Its not a fard one... fard is to cover all except hands and face. So its not nice to be judged by sisters like that saying "i will go to hell". People judge sisters in niqab but sisters in niqab also judge us... its very sad.
Bismillah Ar Rahman Ar Raheem
DeleteAssalaamu alaikum wa rahmathullah wa barakatuhu
Jazakhallah khairun for your comments and thank you for appreciating that I look upon this matter as being mustahab and not fardh.
I find it very distressing that some sisters who wear niqaab should take such a harsh stance over their sisters who leave their hands and faces exposed. They have NO right to say anything against you, and they should consider their own faults (such as backbiting) first before they pass judgement on devout sisters such as yourself who may view this matter in a different light. Only Allah (subhana wa ta'ala) can do that.
Sadly there are bigots everywhere - it was only 3 weeks ago when I was leaving a masjid in Cairo when I was physically grabbed by a western-dressed sister who told me that I was setting Islam back a 1000 years and holding our Deen up to ridicule by 'showing off' in covering fully. I did not stop to argue, as that sort of person is incapable of listening, just like the sisters who abused you would probably never listen to your explanations.
As you say, it is sad. You and I act according to our consciences and in accordance to our interpretation of the daleels. If scholars after over 1400 years of discussion cannot agree on this subject, I think we approach the subject in the right way insha'Allah. With tolerance and doing our best to please Allah (swt) according to our own deeply considered views.
Assalamualaikum Sis! This post has inspired me. Allhamdulillah. Jazakallah for all your effort.
ReplyDeletei agree with what you said sis .may Allah bless you always...i am happy sharing my knowledge and getting a clear idea about it....
ReplyDeleteBismillah Ar Rahman Ar Raheem
DeleteAssalaamu alaikum wa rahmathullah wa barakatuhu
Jazakhallah khairun for your comment which are specially welcome as I have intended to come back to this subject for a long time but have been putting it off owing to other matters taking up my time.
My deep thanks to you for reminding me. I will now do my best to write the blog I had meant to write long ago insha'Allah.
Aliyah
I am a recent revert, i live in England. I agree totally with what you say, i am full of admiration that you cover completely, i am sure it is Allah wills. I seek a wife and i hope sincerely she will fully cover
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